We finally had sex again! We had a long talk - I explained as well as I could that I can't go on this way, and that we need to work on this issue as much as possible. The next day we had sex - sadly it was in-a-hurry-sex because we were on the way out the door, but it was great. Now I just hope we can keep things going and not have me freak out for 3 more months before it happens again. I love her, and I love sex with her - it makes life better.